Clumsiness is curbed by gentleness الخُرْقُ بِالرِّفْقِ يُلْجَمُ.

الخُرْقُ بِالرِّفْقِ يُلْجَمُ.
Clumsiness is curbed by gentleness.
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الخُرْقُ بِالرِّفْقِ يُلْجَمُ
أي: الأحمق أو الجاهل الذي يتصرف بطيش وخشونة يمكن كفُّه وضبطه باللين والرفق، لا بمواجهته بمثل شدته.
وأقرب مقابل إنجليزي:
“You catch more flies with honey than with vinegar.”
«بالعسل تصيد ذبابًا أكثر مما تصيده بالخل.»
وهو قريب جدًا من المعنى؛ أي أن اللين وحسن المعاملة أنفع في التعامل مع الشخص الصعب من الشدة والقسوة.
ومن العبارات الأقصر:
“Gentleness gets results.”
«الرفق يحقق النتائج.»
لكن “You catch more flies with honey than with vinegar” هو المقابل الإنجليزي المأثور الأقرب.
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"Clumsiness is reined in by gentleness."
This means that a foolish or ignorant person who acts rashly and roughly can be restrained and brought under control through softness and gentleness, rather than by meeting their harshness with equal severity.
The closest English equivalent is:
“You catch more flies with honey than with vinegar.”
This conveys a very similar meaning: that gentleness and kind treatment are more effective when dealing with a difficult person than harshness and severity.
Shorter expressions include:
“Gentleness gets results.”
However, “You catch more flies with honey than with vinegar” remains the closest idiomatic English equivalent.